“Mothers and fathers who anxiously await the arrival of a
precious child sometimes learn that all is not well with this tiny infant. A
missing limb, sightless eyes, a damaged brain, or the term “Down’s syndrome”
greets the parents, leaving them baffled, filled with sorrow, and reaching out
for hope. There follows the inevitable blaming of oneself, the condemnation of
a careless action, and the perennial questions: “Why such a tragedy in our
family?” “Why didn’t I keep her home?” “If only he hadn’t gone to that party.”
“How did this happen?” “Where was God?” “Where was a protecting angel?” If,
why, where, how—those recurring words—do not bring back the lost son, the
perfect body, the plans of parents, or the dreams of youth. Self-pity, personal
withdrawal, or deep despair will not bring the peace, the assurance, or help
which are needed. Rather, we must go forward, look upward, move onward, and
rise heavenward.” – Thomas S. Monson
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